Cici's Spotlight
“I'm happy to shine a spotlight on love and relationships for season two, as these are very important dynamics- that will aid us on our path to reclaiming our destiny.”
-Cici

Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.
Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.

We are at a tipping point. We can no longer sit on the sidelines of our lives. We must rise...we must heal...and we must reclaim our destiny.
After being diagnosed with Complex PTSD in 2018, after years of traumatic experiences, I was hit with the realization of how much I had given my power away to people, places and things that did not honor who I was or more importantly, were hinderances to where God wanted to take me.
The next several years after my diagnosis was spent relearning how to take back or shall I say...reclaim that power.
Many positive things were born from this newly reclaimed power including my dignity, self-esteem, and authority.
I created this podcast to help show you that if I can do it...so can you!
Join me each week on Reclaiming Destiny and we can start this journey together.
I hope you can make it but more importantly...I hope this is the start of you...reclaiming your destiny.

Here at Reclaiming Destiny we believe in reclaiming our health- this is why all month long we will be highlighting the benefits of stress awareness.
Keep checking our website and social media for tips, tools, and resources on how to cope with life stressors.

Check out the upcoming episodes for the month of April.
“I'm happy to shine a spotlight on love and relationships for season two, as these are very important dynamics- that will aid us on our path to reclaiming our destiny.”
-Cici

As referenced in season 2, episode #11 "Dating Dealbreakers".
Check out this article from the American Survey Center.org to find out what Americans say are their top dating dealbreakers. You can even sort this survey by gender and demographic categories.
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/explore-dating-dealbreakers/
Then, once you are done with the dating dealbreakers...you can check out these other articles from Men's Health, Better Help, and Bustle for some dating etiquette and tips.

As referenced in season 2, episode #10 "Loving In The Dark".
Want to know just how common the issue of secret or "DL" connections are?
Check out these articles from Psychology Today, BBC, and Medium.
https://www.bbc.com/bbcthree/article/689c930b-f8c6-4bfe-afab-bc0488125f55
https://relationship2021.medium.com/what-single-men-get-when-they-date-married-women-59ec91eb0bbd

As referenced in season 2, episode #7 "Leaving Abusive Relationships".
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788 or go to their website at the link below...



Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
"For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light". - (Ephesians 5:8 (NIV))
In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of self-love and resilience, exploring how we can nurture ourselves even when life gets tough. Through honest conversation and personal stories, we discuss practical ways to embrace compassion for ourselves, especially during adversity.
One highlight of this episode is the introduction of my new eBook, Firefly: Shining Your Light in Challenging Times. I share insights from the book, including tips and exercises designed to help you rediscover your inner light when facing difficulties. Whether you’re struggling or simply seeking encouragement, this episode offers thoughtful guidance and inspiration.
Podcasts referenced in this episode:
Reclaiming Destiny:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-2024-election-results-what-happens-now/id1757034675?i=1000677929068
Episodes you should listen to after this episode:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/happiness-starts-now/id1757034675?i=1000675070019
To download or read my new eBook click the link below:
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
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Tuesday Feb 03, 2026
Tuesday Feb 03, 2026
Tuesday Feb 03, 2026
Welcome to a new season of Reclaiming Destiny! This year, we're diving deep into the heart of what it means to love, heal, and grow-both in our relationships and within ourselves. In this trailer, get a sneak peek at the transformative conversations coming your way.
Attracting or…Chasing? – Explore whether you’re seeking love or if love is seeking you.
Learning to Let Go – Find out how to move on and discover the freedom that comes with release.
Pick Me Syndrome – Unpack what it means to crave validation and how to step into self-love, even when it feels like you’re in the dark.
Acceptance vs. Allowance – Understand the difference between truly accepting others and merely tolerating behavior.
Are You Ready for Love? – Ask yourself the ultimate question about your readiness for a new chapter.
How to Love Ourselves Through Adversity – Learn practical ways to nurture self-love, especially during tough times.
This season is about more than just love-it’s about personal growth, healing, and thriving in every kind of relationship: romantic, platonic, and everything in between. But most importantly, it’s about you...reclaiming your destiny and writing your next chapter.
Subscribe now and join us for a season full of hope, transformation, and new beginnings. Your heart’s waiting. Are you ready?
Listen to Reclaiming Destiny on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, or anywhere you get your podcasts.



Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
Welcome to a special edition of Reclaiming Destiny! In this episode, we're celebrating our journey so far by counting down Cici's favorite episodes from Season One. Whether you’re a longtime listener or just tuning in, this is a perfect way to revisit some of the most impactful conversations and moments from the season.
Each of these episodes reflects the heart of our show: real stories, transformative moments, and the courage to reclaim destiny.
We are grateful for all of our guests and listeners who made Season One so special.
A huge thank you to everyone who tuned in, shared feedback, and supported the podcast this season. Your voices and stories inspire every episode.
Stay tuned for Season Two of Reclaiming Destiny! We have new guests, deeper conversations, and more journeys to share.
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#4: [Surviving Traumatic Childhoods]
#3: [Cooking with Purpose w/ Joy Rothberg]
#2: [Reciprocal vs. Transactional Relationships]
#1: [Happiness Starts Now]
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/



Tuesday Dec 17, 2024
Tuesday Dec 17, 2024
Tuesday Dec 17, 2024
On the season finale, Cici will be introducing part one of the Breaking Generational Patterns series...where we will be discussing the statistics from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention that states 61% of adults have experienced at least one example of what they call “ACEs" or Adverse Childhood Experiences. Cici will also be sharing some personal stories, as well as some tips and tools to help those that may be coping on how to deal with traumatic childhoods and much more.
Podcasts referenced in this episode:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/overcoming-the-fear-of-rejection/id1757034675?i=1000678348901
"We must begin to get into the mindset of healing the things that were sent to destroy us." -Cici

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