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Reclaiming Destiny
Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.
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It's Time To Reclaim...
We are at a tipping point. We can no longer sit on the sidelines of our lives. We must rise...we must heal...and we must reclaim our destiny.
After being diagnosed with Complex PTSD in 2018, after years of traumatic experiences, I was hit with the realization of how much I had given my power away to people, places and things that did not honor who I was or more importantly, were hinderances to where God wanted to take me.
The next several years after my diagnosis was spent relearning how to take back or shall I say...reclaim that power.
Many positive things were born from this newly reclaimed power including my dignity, self-esteem, and authority.
I created this podcast to help show you that if I can do it...so can you!
Join me each week on Reclaiming Destiny and we can start this journey together.
I hope you can make it but more importantly...I hope this is the start of you...reclaiming your destiny.
May Is Mental Health Awareness Month
Here at Reclaiming Destiny we believe in reclaiming our health- this is why all month long we will be advocating for our Mental Health.
Cici's Spotlight
“I'm happy to shine a spotlight on love and relationships for season two, as these are very important dynamics- that will aid us on our path to reclaiming our destiny.”
-Cici
Are You Truly Ready For Love?
Think you’re ready for love? Take our quiz, “Are You Ready for Love”, and find out! It’s a fun and thoughtful way to explore where you are in your relationship journey, what you truly want, and whether your heart is open to the possibilities ahead. Tune in, take the quiz, and discover what love might have in store for you.
Let's Talk About Sex
Sex is an important aspect of our overall well-being, and understanding the many factors that impact our sexual health can help us make informed choices. In the following sections, we will share a variety of articles that explore different topics related to sexual health, offering insights and information to support a healthy and fulfilling life.
How Many Dates Should You Have Before Sex?
Don't Waste Your Sexual Energy
Are You A Pick Me?
"Pick Me Syndrome" describes a pattern where individuals seek validation by constantly striving to be chosen or approved by others, often at the expense of their own needs or self-worth. This behavior can stem from deeper self-esteem issues and may lead to feelings of inadequacy or resentment. To support those who may be experiencing these challenges, we'll share a quick affirmation to help boost self-confidence and promote a healthier sense of self.
Feel free to repeat the following affirmation as many times as you need to: I AM ENOUGH
Need Help Leaving An Abusive Relationship?
As referenced in season 2, episode #7 "Leaving Abusive Relationships".
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788 or go to their website at the link below...
Episodes
Episodes
Tuesday May 19, 2026
Tuesday May 19, 2026
In this episode, host Cici explores the important difference between acceptance and allowance, and why understanding that distinction can transform the way we relate to ourselves and others. Acceptance asks us to acknowledge reality honestly, while allowance can look like tolerating behaviors, patterns, or situations that cross our boundaries and compromise our well-being. Through this conversation, listeners are invited to reflect on where they may be confusing peace with passivity and compassion with over-tolerance.
Key Topics
The difference between accepting reality and allowing harmful patterns to continue
How boundaries help protect peace, self-respect, and emotional well-being
Why compassion does not require self-abandonment
Recognizing when tolerance has become unhealthy
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Sunday May 17, 2026
Sunday May 17, 2026
In this episode, Cici explores how intimate relationship choices can affect us physically, emotionally, and spiritually. The conversation encourages listeners to make wiser, healthier decisions about closeness and connection, especially when those choices involve the wrong person. This episode reminds us that intimacy is not casual for everyone, it can carry deep personal meaning and lasting consequences.
Quote read in the beginning of the episode:
The Power Of the Relationship Cord
Podcasts Referenced In This Episode:
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/dating-dealbreakers/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/setting-healthy-boundaries/
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Tuesday May 12, 2026
Tuesday May 12, 2026
Cici introduces "Sex, Choices, and Consequences" episode and provides a brief trigger warning before episodes airs.
Tuesday May 05, 2026
Tuesday May 05, 2026
In this episode, host Cici dives deep into the complexities of “Pick Me Syndrome”—a pattern where individuals seek validation and acceptance, sometimes at the expense of their own well-being. Cici speaks directly to those who recognize this behavior in themselves, offering heartfelt reassurance that you are worthy, you are enough, and you do not need to rely on others’ approval to feel valued.
Throughout the conversation, Cici unpacks what “Pick Me” behavior looks like, explores its roots, and provides practical strategies for cultivating authentic self-worth. The episode shines a light on recognizing these patterns and offers actionable tools to help listeners move toward greater self-acceptance and healthier relationships, while also encouraging listeners to seek support and guidance in breaking free from the cycle of seeking external validation.
If you’ve ever felt overlooked, undervalued, or stuck in a loop of needing affirmation, this episode is for you—filled with honesty, compassion, and empowering advice to help you step into your own value.
Listen now as Cici guides you through letting go of external approval and embracing your authentic self. Remember, you deserve respect, love, and acceptance—just as you are.
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