Cici's Spotlight
“I'm happy to shine a spotlight on love and relationships for season two, as these are very important dynamics- that will aid us on our path to reclaiming our destiny.”
-Cici
Reclaiming Destiny
Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.
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It's Time To Reclaim...
We are at a tipping point. We can no longer sit on the sidelines of our lives. We must rise...we must heal...and we must reclaim our destiny.
After being diagnosed with Complex PTSD in 2018, after years of traumatic experiences, I was hit with the realization of how much I had given my power away to people, places and things that did not honor who I was or more importantly, were hinderances to where God wanted to take me.
The next several years after my diagnosis was spent relearning how to take back or shall I say...reclaim that power.
Many positive things were born from this newly reclaimed power including my dignity, self-esteem, and authority.
I created this podcast to help show you that if I can do it...so can you!
Join me each week on Reclaiming Destiny and we can start this journey together.
I hope you can make it but more importantly...I hope this is the start of you...reclaiming your destiny.
April Is Stress Awareness Month
Here at Reclaiming Destiny we believe in reclaiming our health- this is why all month long we will be highlighting the benefits of stress awareness.
Keep checking our website and social media for tips, tools, and resources on how to cope with life stressors.
Upcoming Episodes
Check out the upcoming episodes for the month of April.
Building a Closer Relationship with God
As referenced in season 2, episode #12 "Building a Closer Relationship with the Divine".
Check out this guide on the four ways you can build a closer relationship with God.
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/p/cici-s-ebooks-info-guides-and-pdf-s/
Dating 101
As referenced in season 2, episode #11 "Dating Dealbreakers".
Check out this article from the American Survey Center.org to find out what Americans say are their top dating dealbreakers. You can even sort this survey by gender and demographic categories.
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/explore-dating-dealbreakers/
Then, once you are done with the dating dealbreakers...you can check out these other articles from Men's Health, Better Help, and Bustle for some dating etiquette and tips.
Need Help Leaving An Abusive Relationship?
As referenced in season 2, episode #7 "Leaving Abusive Relationships".
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788 or go to their website at the link below...
Episodes
Episodes
Tuesday Mar 31, 2026
Tuesday Mar 31, 2026
In this episode, we explore the world of "dating dealbreakers” those red flags and non-negotiables that can determine if a relationship sinks or swims. Our discussion covers everything from conflicting values and incompatible lifestyles to habits that just don't mesh. Along the way, we share candid stories from real experiences, expert advice on identifying dealbreakers, and tips for approaching these conversations with honesty and respect.
What are dating dealbreakers, and why do they matter?
Common dealbreakers: values, lifestyle, communication, and more
Personal stories from listeners and hosts
Expert insights on how to recognize and address dealbreakers
Strategies for building healthier, more fulfilling relationships
Tune in to hear why recognizing your own dealbreakers—and respecting those of others—can help you find a better match and avoid unnecessary heartbreak.
Social Media breeding unrealistic dating culture?- The Cindy Noir/Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWNXv5mDRXi/?igsh=MXQ0dW1tbTFvdjU2Mw==
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
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Tuesday Mar 24, 2026
Tuesday Mar 24, 2026
There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known. What you have said in the dark will be heard in the daylight, and what you have whispered in the ear in the inner rooms will be proclaimed from the roofs. - (Luke 12:2-3)
Today's episode dives into the reality of "loving in the dark," exploring secret (DL) relationships, why people hide, the emotional toll of secrecy, and how those dynamics affect trust and personal growth. Drawing on personal stories and practical insight, Cici urges listeners to seek openness, self-worth, and healthier expressions of love.
Lyrics to Love In The Dark: By Adele
https://genius.com/Adele-love-in-the-dark-lyrics
Resources Mentioned
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-of-love/202603/why-do-single-women-prefer-affairs-with-married-men
https://www.bbc.com/bbcthree/article/689c930b-f8c6-4bfe-afab-bc0488125f55
https://relationship2021.medium.com/what-single-men-get-when-they-date-married-women-59ec91eb0bbd
Podcasts Referenced In This Episode
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
Connect With Us
Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
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Tuesday Mar 17, 2026
Tuesday Mar 17, 2026
In this episode, we delve into the essential elements of building and maintaining healthy relationships, whether with family, friends, romantic partners, or colleagues. Our discussion highlights the importance of focusing on ourselves as the foundation for strong connections. We explore how healing from past experiences, setting and respecting boundaries, taking accountability for our actions, practicing honesty, and setting reasonable expectations all play a crucial role in nurturing relationships that are supportive and fulfilling.
Self-Focus as the Starting Point: Learn why prioritizing your own growth and well-being positively impacts every relationship in your life.
Healing: Discover strategies for acknowledging and addressing past wounds to prevent them from negatively influencing your current connections.
Boundaries: Understand how to set healthy limits, communicate them clearly, and respect those of others to create safe and balanced interactions.
Accountability: Find out why taking responsibility for your actions and reactions is essential for trust and mutual respect.
Honesty: Uncover the power of open and sincere communication in deepening bonds and resolving conflicts.
Reasonable Expectations: Learn how to set and communicate realistic expectations to foster understanding and reduce disappointment.
Tune in for practical tips and heartfelt insights that will empower you to cultivate relationships that bring joy, support, and growth to your life.
Resources Mentioned
3 Ways to Cultivate Healthy Relationships Guide
Podcasts Referenced In This Episode
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/setting-healthy-boundaries/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/surviving-traumatic-childhoods/
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
Connect With Us
Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny
Tuesday Mar 10, 2026
Tuesday Mar 10, 2026
Welcome to today’s episode, where we dive deep into the topic of setting healthy boundaries, one of the most essential yet misunderstood self-care skills. If you’ve ever struggled to say “no” or felt overwhelmed trying to protect your time and energy, this episode is for you.
Episode Highlights
Understanding Boundaries vs. Rules: We recap a thought-provoking episode of Checking In with Michelle Williams, featuring Dr. Raquel Martin. Dr. Martin explains the crucial differences between “rules”—which often feel rigid and controlling—and “boundaries,” which are about personal clarity and self-respect. She shares how boundaries can foster genuine connections without leading to resentment or burnout.
Common Misconceptions: We discuss why the word “boundary” can bring up feelings of guilt or fear of conflict, and how reframing boundaries as tools for connection (not separation) can empower us in all our relationships.
5 Ways to Set Healthy Boundaries: Drawing from PositivePsychology.com, we also break down five practical steps anyone can do to set clear boundaries.
Takeaways
Boundaries aren’t about shutting others out, they’re about showing up authentically and protecting what matters most to you.
Learning the difference between rules and boundaries can transform your relationships with others and yourself.
Implementing clear, healthy boundaries is a form of self-care that allows you to be more present, kind, and fulfilled.
Resources Mentioned
Checking In with Michelle Williams featuring Dr. Raquel Martin
PositivePsychology.com: How to Set Healthy Boundaries
Tune in now to learn how you can start setting boundaries that honor your needs, nurture your relationships, and support your well-being!
Podcasts Referenced In This Episode
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/where-healing-meets-liberation/id1539709262?i=1000746047648
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/leaving-abusive-relationships/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/radiating-self-love/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/what-are-karmic-relationships/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/in-sickness-and-in-health/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/
Additional Resources
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/boundaries
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times
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