May 17, 2026
Sex, Choices, and Consequences
Reclaiming Destiny
Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.
It's Time To Reclaim...
We are at a tipping point. We can no longer sit on the sidelines of our lives. We must rise...we must heal...and we must reclaim our destiny.
After being diagnosed with Complex PTSD in 2018, after years of traumatic experiences, I was hit with the realization of how much I had given my power away to people, places and things that did not honor who I was or more importantly, were hinderances to where God wanted to take me.
The next several years after my diagnosis was spent relearning how to take back or shall I say...reclaim that power.
Many positive things were born from this newly reclaimed power including my dignity, self-esteem, and authority.
I created this podcast to help show you that if I can do it...so can you!
Join me each week on Reclaiming Destiny and we can start this journey together.
I hope you can make it but more importantly...I hope this is the start of you...reclaiming your destiny.
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Cici's Spotlight
“I'm happy to shine a spotlight on love and relationships for season two, as these are very important dynamics- that will aid us on our path to reclaiming our destiny.”
-Cici
For My Singles!
Check out this collection of short read articles complied by the Pew Research Center on different topics related to single adults living in the U.S.
https://www.pewresearch.org/topic/family-relationships/marriage-divorce/unmarried-adults/
Are You Truly Ready For Love?
Think you’re ready for love? Take our quiz, “Are You Ready for Love”, and find out! It’s a fun and thoughtful way to explore where you are in your relationship journey, what you truly want, and whether your heart is open to the possibilities ahead. Tune in, take the quiz, and discover what love might have in store for you.
Need Help Leaving An Abusive Relationship?
As referenced in season 2, episode #7 "Leaving Abusive Relationships".
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788 or go to their website at the link below...
Episodes
Episodes
May 12, 2026
May 12, 2026
1 min
Cici introduces "Sex, Choices, and Consequences" episode and provides a brief trigger warning before episodes airs.
May 5, 2026
May 5, 2026
9 min
In this episode, host Cici dives deep into the complexities of “Pick Me Syndrome”—a pattern where individuals seek validation and acceptance, sometimes at the expense of their own well-being. Cici speaks directly to those who recognize this behavior in themselves, offering heartfelt reassurance that you are worthy, you are enough, and you do not need to rely on others’ approval to feel valued.
Throughout the conversation, Cici unpacks what “Pick Me” behavior looks like, explores its roots, and provides practical strategies for cultivating authentic self-worth. The episode shines a light on recognizing these patterns and offers actionable tools to help listeners move toward greater self-acceptance and healthier relationships, while also encouraging listeners to seek support and guidance in breaking free from the cycle of seeking external validation.
If you’ve ever felt overlooked, undervalued, or stuck in a loop of needing affirmation, this episode is for you—filled with honesty, compassion, and empowering advice to help you step into your own value.
Listen now as Cici guides you through letting go of external approval and embracing your authentic self. Remember, you deserve respect, love, and acceptance—just as you are.
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
Connect With Us
Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny
Apr 30, 2026
Apr 30, 2026
22 min
Episode Summary
In this episode, host Cici explores the process of letting go of relationships that no longer serve our highest good. We discuss how to release connections with compassion, free from guilt and shame, and emphasize the importance of having a safe plan for leaving. The conversation focuses on recognizing when a relationship is holding you back and finding the courage to move forward with clarity and self-kindness.
Key Topics
Understanding the art and challenge of letting go
Knowing when a relationship has served its purpose
Letting go without guilt or shame
Practicing compassion—for yourself and others—during transitions
Creating a safe and thoughtful exit plan
Cici’s Top Four Signs It’s Time to Leave
The relationship turns abusive.
The negatives outweigh the positives.
There is uneasiness in your body.
You’re at peace—when you imagine moving on, you feel a sense of relief and calm.
National Domestic Violence Hotline
800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788
Podcasts Referenced In This Episode:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/oprah-explores-the-rising-trend-of-going-no-contact/id1782960381?i=1000738306637
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/leaving-abusive-relationships/
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
Connect With Us
Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny
Apr 28, 2026
Apr 28, 2026
1 min
Cici introduces "Learning to Let Go" episode and provides a brief trigger warning before episodes airs.
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