Apr 21, 2026
Attracting...or Chasing?
Reclaiming Destiny
Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.
It's Time To Reclaim...
We are at a tipping point. We can no longer sit on the sidelines of our lives. We must rise...we must heal...and we must reclaim our destiny.
After being diagnosed with Complex PTSD in 2018, after years of traumatic experiences, I was hit with the realization of how much I had given my power away to people, places and things that did not honor who I was or more importantly, were hinderances to where God wanted to take me.
The next several years after my diagnosis was spent relearning how to take back or shall I say...reclaim that power.
Many positive things were born from this newly reclaimed power including my dignity, self-esteem, and authority.
I created this podcast to help show you that if I can do it...so can you!
Join me each week on Reclaiming Destiny and we can start this journey together.
I hope you can make it but more importantly...I hope this is the start of you...reclaiming your destiny.
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Cici's Spotlight
“I'm happy to shine a spotlight on love and relationships for season two, as these are very important dynamics- that will aid us on our path to reclaiming our destiny.”
-Cici
For My Singles!
Check out this collection of short read articles complied by the Pew Research Center on different topics related to single adults living in the U.S.
https://www.pewresearch.org/topic/family-relationships/marriage-divorce/unmarried-adults/
Are You Truly Ready For Love?
Think you’re ready for love? Take our quiz, “Are You Ready for Love”, and find out! It’s a fun and thoughtful way to explore where you are in your relationship journey, what you truly want, and whether your heart is open to the possibilities ahead. Tune in, take the quiz, and discover what love might have in store for you.
Need Help Leaving An Abusive Relationship?
As referenced in season 2, episode #7 "Leaving Abusive Relationships".
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788 or go to their website at the link below...
Episodes
Episodes
Apr 14, 2026
Apr 14, 2026
25 min
Episode Summary: Explore why you might find yourself repeatedly connecting with people who resist love, vulnerability, or emotional openness. Discover how to identify “anti-love” patterns and what steps you can take to create healthier relationships.
Key Topics Discussed:
Recognizing the signs of emotional resistance in friends and partners
Understanding why some people struggle with affection and intimacy
The impact of past experiences and beliefs on relationship choices
Practical strategies to break unhealthy cycles and attract more loving connections
How to nurture vulnerability and openness within yourself
Takeaways:
Self-awareness is the first step toward change
Healthy boundaries and communication can transform your relationships
It’s possible to shift your patterns and invite love into your life
Listener Challenge: Reflect on your recent relationships or friendships. Are there patterns of emotional distance or resistance? What can you do differently to foster more genuine connection?
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Apr 7, 2026
Apr 7, 2026
18 min
Episode Overview: Discover the transformative journey of deepening your spiritual connection. This episode explores various ways to build a closer relationship with God and experience the Divine in everyday life.
Key Topics:
The importance of faith, stillness, breathwork, and prayer as pathways to spiritual growth
How nurturing your spiritual life can bring peace, guidance, and fulfillment
Practical steps for strengthening your relationship with the Divine
Personal stories and insights on connecting with spirituality
Reflecting on purpose and the meaning of experiencing the Divine daily
Takeaways:
Simple practices to invite spirituality into your routine
How to find peace and guidance through spiritual connection
Encouragement to reflect on what the Divine means for you
Check out my free guide: Building A Closer Relationship With The Divine
Conversations with God, by Neale Donald Walsch
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-complete-conversations-with-god-neale-donald-walsch/1139137296?ean=9780399153297
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Mar 31, 2026
Mar 31, 2026
15 min
In this episode, we explore the world of "dating dealbreakers” those red flags and non-negotiables that can determine if a relationship sinks or swims. Our discussion covers everything from conflicting values and incompatible lifestyles to habits that just don't mesh. Along the way, we share candid stories from real experiences, expert advice on identifying dealbreakers, and tips for approaching these conversations with honesty and respect.
What are dating dealbreakers, and why do they matter?
Common dealbreakers: values, lifestyle, communication, and more
Personal stories from listeners and hosts
Expert insights on how to recognize and address dealbreakers
Strategies for building healthier, more fulfilling relationships
Tune in to hear why recognizing your own dealbreakers—and respecting those of others—can help you find a better match and avoid unnecessary heartbreak.
Social Media breeding unrealistic dating culture?- The Cindy Noir/Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWNXv5mDRXi/?igsh=MXQ0dW1tbTFvdjU2Mw==
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Mar 24, 2026
Mar 24, 2026
20 min
There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known. What you have said in the dark will be heard in the daylight, and what you have whispered in the ear in the inner rooms will be proclaimed from the roofs. - (Luke 12:2-3)
Today's episode dives into the reality of "loving in the dark," exploring secret (DL) relationships, why people hide, the emotional toll of secrecy, and how those dynamics affect trust and personal growth. Drawing on personal stories and practical insight, Cici urges listeners to seek openness, self-worth, and healthier expressions of love.
Lyrics to Love In The Dark: By Adele
https://genius.com/Adele-love-in-the-dark-lyrics
Resources Mentioned
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-of-love/202603/why-do-single-women-prefer-affairs-with-married-men
https://www.bbc.com/bbcthree/article/689c930b-f8c6-4bfe-afab-bc0488125f55
https://relationship2021.medium.com/what-single-men-get-when-they-date-married-women-59ec91eb0bbd
Podcasts Referenced In This Episode
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/
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