Cici's Spotlight
“I'm happy to shine a spotlight on love and relationships for season two, as these are very important dynamics- that will aid us on our path to reclaiming our destiny.”
-Cici
Tuesday Mar 03, 2026
Leaving Abusive Relationships Introduction
Reclaiming Destiny
Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.
Listen on:
It's Time To Reclaim...
We are at a tipping point. We can no longer sit on the sidelines of our lives. We must rise...we must heal...and we must reclaim our destiny.
After being diagnosed with Complex PTSD in 2018, after years of traumatic experiences, I was hit with the realization of how much I had given my power away to people, places and things that did not honor who I was or more importantly, were hinderances to where God wanted to take me.
The next several years after my diagnosis was spent relearning how to take back or shall I say...reclaim that power.
Many positive things were born from this newly reclaimed power including my dignity, self-esteem, and authority.
I created this podcast to help show you that if I can do it...so can you!
Join me each week on Reclaiming Destiny and we can start this journey together.
I hope you can make it but more importantly...I hope this is the start of you...reclaiming your destiny.
April Is Stress Awareness Month
Here at Reclaiming Destiny we believe in reclaiming our health- this is why all month long we will be highlighting the benefits of stress awareness.
Keep checking our website and social media for tips, tools, and resources on how to cope with life stressors.
Upcoming Episodes
Check out the upcoming episodes for the month of April.
Dating 101
As referenced in season 2, episode #11 "Dating Dealbreakers".
Check out this article from the American Survey Center.org to find out what Americans say are their top dating dealbreakers. You can even sort this survey by gender and demographic categories.
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/explore-dating-dealbreakers/
Then, once you are done with the dating dealbreakers...you can check out these other articles from Men's Health, Better Help, and Bustle for some dating etiquette and tips.
Loving In The Dark
As referenced in season 2, episode #10 "Loving In The Dark".
Want to know just how common the issue of secret or "DL" connections are?
Check out these articles from Psychology Today, BBC, and Medium.
https://www.bbc.com/bbcthree/article/689c930b-f8c6-4bfe-afab-bc0488125f55
https://relationship2021.medium.com/what-single-men-get-when-they-date-married-women-59ec91eb0bbd
Need Help Leaving An Abusive Relationship?
As referenced in season 2, episode #7 "Leaving Abusive Relationships".
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788 or go to their website at the link below...
Episodes
Episodes
Tuesday Feb 24, 2026
Tuesday Feb 24, 2026
"Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit... Therefore honor God with your bodies." - (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)
Welcome to this week’s episode, where we dive deep into the powerful practice of radiating self-love. Join us as we explore what it truly means to love yourself from the inside out, and how cultivating self-acceptance can positively impact every area of your life.
Resources/Articles Referenced In This Episode:
https://www.verywellmind.com/self-care-strategies-overall-stress-reduction-3144729
Podcasts Referenced In This Episode:
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
Connect With Us
Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny
Tuesday Feb 17, 2026
Tuesday Feb 17, 2026
"Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy" (Proverbs 27:6) ESV
"Real friendship isn't about fun. It's about depth. It's about the people who stay when life isn't easy to show up for. That kind of friendship is rare." - Robert Dial Jr.
In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of toxic friendships, what they are, how to recognize them, and why breaking free can be so challenging. Our host shares candid personal stories about past toxic friendships, offering insight into the emotional impact and the lessons learned along the way. We discuss common behaviors that signal toxicity, the importance of setting boundaries, and practical strategies for moving forward.
Podcasts Referenced In this Episode:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-mentor/id1033048640
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/surviving-traumatic-childhoods/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/in-sickness-and-in-health/
Resources:
https://www.verywellmind.com/signs-of-a-toxic-friend-8430982
https://lifehopeandtruth.com/relationships/friendship/toxic-friendships/
https://www.businessinsider.com/ended-ghosted-toxic-friendships-feel-happier-2025-2
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
Connect With Us
Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Karmic and counterfeit relationships are connections that may feel intense or fated, but often leave us feeling unsettled or diverted from our authentic path.
These relationships are typically marked by recurring patterns, emotional highs and lows, and lessons that push us to grow through challenges.
They can enter our lives to test our boundaries, highlight unresolved issues, or reveal what we truly want out of our connections.
Recognizing the signs of a karmic or counterfeit relationship can help us realign with our purpose and choose relationships that nurture our growth.
This episode explores how to identify these connections, the role they play in our personal journey, and tips for moving forward with greater self-awareness.
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
Connect With Us
Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
In this episode, we dive deep into the real meaning of soulmates and explore why the concept is so much more than just finding a romantic partner. Join us as we challenge some of the common myths about soulmates and open new perspectives on connection, friendship, and personal growth.
Key Takeaways
Soulmates aren’t limited to romance—they can be anyone who profoundly impacts your journey.
Deep connections often teach us important life lessons, whether they last forever or not.
Being open to different types of soulmate relationships can enrich your life in unexpected ways.
Check out my free guide on The Four Types of Soulmates:
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
Connect With Us
Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny
Shop Our Exclusive Merch
Shop our exclusive podcast merch! Pick from a variety of mugs, shirts, and much more...
https://shopcicisbooksmerch.creator-spring.com/listing/reclaiming-destiny-merch
Events
Coming Soon!
Let's Keep The Conversation Going!
We would love to hear from you.
Email us:
feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Follow us on Social Media: